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楼主,人家表现的into你,是因为即使一夜情,男人也应该treat you with respect, but that’s all, doesn’t really mean anything. You just met. You agreed to have casual fun,ok? 难道因为是一夜情他赤裸裸的拿你当性工具,你就满意了吗?

你再好好读读你发给他的短信,我不知道你本来想传达给他什么样的信息,但你那个短信就是要和他再一夜情的意思,没有任何余地可以做别的理解,如果你想认真,不是说like, 也不应该提那一夜的meetup,你要知道like有很多种,当你和那一夜的meetup连在一起说,传达的是你喜欢那一夜的meetup,那你们那一夜的meetup都干什么了? 后面还补一句,you’ll be in la next week, 这不就是说你喜欢那一夜的meetup,希望能再约吗? 你还说人家真的只是为了一夜情, 那是因为你明明白白的告诉他你想再和他一夜情啊! 然后你约了人家,又准备打扮的美美的,去了眼馋对方,但不和人上床。。。。恕我直言, what the fxxk is wrong with you?
笨笨熊 发表于 5/25/2018 3:31:48 PM

I first sent him the first msg, there was no response, he left me hanging there;  then I sent another one, he responded right away;  It wasn't until then I realized what he really wanted after all. Btw, the meetup went well, not just referring to sex as your described here.

To plan another meetup, I  mainly wanted to show him it is his loss not to date me, and it will be the end hopefully...
最后编辑usatt 最后编辑于 2018-05-25 16:22:53
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楼主这个不就是说 你喜欢你们的那一夜 想问他是不是只想一夜还是有长期炮友可能 然后还说下周在la 就是想再约炮啊
从头到尾没有让人觉得有什么别的feeling只是想说这个炮很特别

感觉你们不在一个page 还是别约了let it go吧
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I first sent him the first msg, there was no response, he left me hanging there;  then I sent another one, he responded right away;  It wasn't until then I realized what he really wanted after all. Btw, the meetup went well, not just referring to sex as your described here.

To plan another meetup, I  mainly wanted to show him it is his loss not to date me, and it will be the end hopefully...



usatt 发表于 5/25/2018 4:17:43 PM

你第一封短信他没回,因为他不知道你还会再去见他,你一直给他传达的信息就是你俩一夜情的第二天你就离开LA了,既然连再次一夜情的未来都没有,他为啥要回你呢? 对他来说,他已经回过你前几天发给他的的follow up短信了,他对你这个一夜情对象已经仁至义尽了,没有pump and dump。 直到你发第二封短信说你下周会再去LA,你才给了他明确的下周再次滚床单的信息,等于是你这时候才下了offer,你第一封信是废话,他懒得理你,第二封信才是有事儿说事儿,所以他才回。
我之前就说了,你要是真想和他认真发展,就该明明白白清清楚楚的告诉人家,而不是像你这样莫名其妙的试探。你得先对自己坦诚,然后对别人坦诚的说出你的需求,这是唯一能让你得偿所愿的途径。 第一次meetup不仅仅是sex,他也是这么认为的吗?他知道你这样认为吗? 所以我说你是不是语文不好? 你说你喜欢你俩的meetup, 那你为什么喜欢,喜欢什么,想在这喜欢的基础上再做点什么, 你怎么不和他说呢?老外不和你搞一切尽在不言中的,他们只会take your words。
他不会觉得没有date你有什么可惜的,只会觉得要么你有病,要么你在耍他。


这男的到目前为止,我觉得他没有做错什么,也没有什么对不起你的地方。 倒是你,给人家假象会再次滚床单,诱骗对方和你再见面,只为了make him feel sorry or regret, 你这么做,不仅crazy,也很nasty。如果你想做一个decent的人,现在就给他发短信取消约会。你浪费你自己的时间是你的事,但你浪费一个对你一直不错的人的时间,这是不可以原谅的。
最后编辑笨笨熊 最后编辑于 2018-05-25 17:12:46
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I first sent him the first msg, there was no response, he left me hanging there;  then I sent another one, he responded right away;  It wasn't until then I realized what he really wanted after all. Btw, the meetup went well, not just referring to sex as your described here.

To plan another meetup, I  mainly wanted to show him it is his loss not to date me, and it will be the end hopefully...



usatt 发表于 5/25/2018 4:17:43 PM

你连人到底有没有老婆估计都不清楚。
你再怎样弄,这男的都不会觉得他有任何损失。别白费心力了。
对男人的心理,你真的太不了解了。
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这种态度很明显就是睡晚就走的人。不知道还纠结个啥呀,赶紧move on不可以吗, 浪费这些时间干点啥不好呢。
最后编辑Singforyou 最后编辑于 2018-05-31 07:49:01
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